I'm six days into my detox...and guess what happened? Well, not a whole lot quite yet. Would you like me to be honest or write about a bunch of things you already know like, "Guys, it's the craziest thing! I feel way less distracted and I have ROOM to breathe. Here's a nine step guide to get the results I did!" I know most of us have taken a step back from social media before. I'm pretty certain that I don't need to convince you that it's refreshing either.
A fraction of you may be thinking, "So am I gonna learn anything here?" Well, let me rewind a bit. I have plenty of notes and comments. I have reflective questions that may come in handy and keywords that'll help simplify what I'm trying to say. However, since I made no social media a rule for Sundays, the past couple days haven't felt a whole lot different. Although, when I come to think of it...I've been longing to feel normalcy without social media and I think I've finally got here. That being said, let's dive into a few key things I dug up about my faith this week.
First, let me clarify what I consider social media, so we're all on the same page. This week I logged out of Instagram, Facebook, Tumblr, and I rarely use Snapchat. One difference between this week and a normal Sunday is, I had to continue working. I help a friend with online marketing, so being on social media for this job is mandatory. It was a little tricky navigating Facebook without reading my own notifications, but I got the hang of it.
Without social media, I don't have many outlets for marketing my blog. In this case, I had to sit back and pray God would keep this thing growing. I kept a close eye on my numbers this week and there was no dramatic dip. In fact, I've had the highest number of page views I've had in months. So, for all my bloggers out there, you can take a break girl. Your website can survive a week off.
1. If logging out for a day or a week scares you, try a challenge that focuses on logging out for a specific meal or time of day. Jessica Walker created a super cool challenge and you can find that here. It includes 30 days of challenges like turning off post notifications, no Facebook until 12pm, first hour of day phone free, and Insta free day!
2. If you're ready to block out a day for jumping offline, take a look at my Nine Habits I Like to Practice on the Sabbath post. I go over my Sunday rules and not getting on social media, is one of them. It's pretty manageable and sometimes I look forward to my one day without it!
3. If you've tried a mix of these, maybe it's time to go off grid for a week, month, or shut it down altogether. This is where the real magic happens. Revelations, perspective, and change of heart. I'd love to delete everything one day, but as a blogger, I see such potential marketing with these platforms, that I can't. For now, a week break is perfect to get my heart pumping again.
My face feels scratchy, like I've been picking at a sunburn all day. Writing this wasn't easy. My last three blog posts tumbled onto the page and I assumed it would be the same with this one. I was on a roll. Although, about halfway through I felt my-usual-writing-joy leave my body and be replaced with tingling panic. "Is this even helpful? People won't read this. Why do I blog? I'm a terrible writer."
Um Lo', weren't you just writing about anxiety a few weeks ago? I definitely was, but we all know anxiety is much like a war, not a fix-it ticket. It takes strategy, discipline, and the energy we don't have. What I'm trying to say is- doing what you love will take weird and wild turns. Believe me, I took a nap, watched a tidying up episode, soaked in the bath, and listened to worship music, before I could even force myself to work on this again. Leave it and come back- LOL do that with social media too. :)
Thanks for reading guys! I hope this helps you find a break that feels right for you. Who knows, maybe you've got this thing DOWN and you don't ever need to log out. I wish I could feel that!
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If you haven't gone to Mexico, ya needa do it with your best friends. The first three days we were there, it was pouring rain. What did we do? We bought cigars, rounded up some pina coladas, and made our backyard bath into a hot tub! Would you honestly do this with your family? LOL. I want y'all to have a great vacay...so here's a list of my need-to-knows before ya take off!
the nine things you need to know-
1. Check for travel warnings in that state, EVEN if you're using a travel agent. Advisories in Mexico change often, so take a look at this website to make sure you're in the clear. This is a website I trust and it's run by the U.S. Department of State.
2. On the plane, the flight attendant will hand out your Mexico Visitors Permit. There is a top and bottom section- fill out BOTH of these. (Yes, I know it's the exact same info., but they'll tear off half and keep it on file.) If you don't do both, you'll have to hurriedly find a pen and awkwardly fill out the bottom as a custom officer watches you. Don't be me lol.
Tip: These permits only allow you 180 days in Mexico. To read more about the permit, click here. If you're planning to stay longer, you need to apply for a visa!
3. If you disregard every tip, at least read this one! Seriously, bring antibiotics. The whole don't drink water thing slipped my mind like everyday. Even if you think you'll remember not to, bring them anyway.
I promise you there's gonna be a day when you've been out in the sun for hours, you sit down at a nice table, and forget you're suppose to be cautious. You'll gulp down an entire glass of water and realize what you've done. Also, please understand in no way am I saying that you will instantly get sick from drinking the water. I've talked to many people who have neverrrrrr gotten sick and been to Mexico multiple times. Like, that's super great!
However, my three friends and I, unconsciously drank it quite a bit. You may say, well it could have been the food? Only, we ate at different buffets most of the time, so that's nearly impossible. So before you head out, stop at your doctor, and request antibiotics to take with you.
I kid you not guys, we were gulping down tylenol, in and out of the bathroom, and unable to move from bed. Brittanie and I strongly considered buying new plane tickets because we couldn't fathom being sick on a long plane ride. IT WAS HELL. If we had antibiotics, we might've been good after a day or two. Be smart and bring some pills!
4. If you don't have a major credit card, GET ONE. Guys, I'm like totally not for them, especially after worshiping Dave Ramsey, but you need one here. If our friends Brittanie and Jereme weren't there, Trey and I probably woulda been screwed. They brought a couple with and we didn't.
I would even go as far as calling your resort beforehand and ask what credit cards they accept. I remember as we were checking out, we were paying our room bill, and they said they didn't accept American Express. Thankfully, we were able to split it up on different cards. Do some research and invest time into finding the right card for the trip.
5. I thought about brushing up on my Spanish and then I didn't. Before you say...I don't know if I'll have time for that, let me tell you a few stories. One night we went out to a restaurant and I was ordering a glass of wine. The lady was asking me what kind I liked and I said "Moscato," which I didn't see on the menu.
She said something like "Ah, yes" and other words I didn't know. Moments later, she returned with A BUCKET FULL OF ICE, ON A STAND THING, WITH A BOTTLE OF MOSCATO. We tried to voice to our waiter that I only wanted a glassand t hat was unsucessful, lol. Then, since we charged most of our things to the room, we couldn't get a receipt and see how much the wine was! So, you bet I drank that whole thing. Fortunately, as we checked out, we found out the bottle was around $15-25, lol. SO GET STUDYING! If you like wine, maybe memorize some wine terms to avoid this situation. HA!
Another instance, was when we were flying out of the Cancun airport. I wasn't able to check in at the mobile kiosk, so we asked a man to show us to the full service check in. He pointed and then motioned me to start jogging after him. Once the chase was over and we were in line- he asked me for a tip, lol. Which I was totally unprepared for and barely had anything. So again, this totally could have been avoided if I could have read Spanish better.
6. If you're staying at an all-inclusive resort, pick a reasonable amount of spending money, and then triple that. I thought I brought a smart amount and boy, was I definitely wrong. A few things like accidentally ordering that wine, time at the spa, and buying a lot of room service slipped my mind. Every single thing we did was totally worth the money, I just could have been better prepared.
7. A little run down of eating at an all-inclusive. This may have just been our hotel, but the food really wasn't great. Most of the time, we ate at buffets, and rarely found items with any flavor. It was a little disappointing, but next time around I know to look for resorts with awesome food reviews. Our drinks were normally fire though, so that's good, lol!
8. I remember when I was younger, I heard a lot about bargaining at Mexican markets. The idea kind of slipped my mind, since we were at a resort. However, before we booked our excursions, Britt and Jereme brought up how we should try it. Y'all know I like to save, so I was all for that.
We got the price knocked down a reasonable amount too. Britt and I said, "Yeah that price seems a little high for us," and ended up with a good deal. The guy who helped us worked with our hotel too, so don't be afraid to ask for a discount.
9. This one is kinda dumb on my part, but it's rough running around Mexico and keepin up with homework. One day, I accidentally left my laptop out when they were suppose to clean our room. When we came back, there was a note sitting out that said, "Since your valuables were not out of sight, we were unable to clean your room." It said something else about how I should use the safe, which was broken! Anyway, stow your things away because you may have to go without clean towels for a day, lol!
There ya go! You're ready. I hope this post helps you plan a smart + super fun trip! Also, if you've already been and have a favorite resort, drop it below! I wanna know the best places :) We stayed at the Catalonia Riviera Maya and it was decent, disregarding the food. Our trip was mid June and besides a few days of rain, it was beautiful! Overall, I might visit again with a different resort. Thanks for reading sweeties!
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